LOVE vs FRIENDSHIP

when do you know you are already in love? and when do you know that it's only friendship that the other side can offer? here are the questions of life i always ask to myself and perhaps you too keep on aking. A friend sent a GM (group msg) asking "pa'no mo sasabihin sa isang tao na mahal mo siya pero di siya iiwas sa iyo? (how can you tell to a person that you are inlove with him/her without that person moving away?). here is my answer: parting from you is a consequence of the reality game called love. there should be always timing. love can wait. there is always right time. you don't have to hurry so you dont have to worry. haha. corny one. in friendship especially in my situation, it is very easy for me to develop my feelings to a girl when we started to get close. then teasing follows. it aches ten times more that she is telling you about her boyfriend. i got this happy feeling when my friend told me the she and her boyfriend get separated. alas i can have my move. but with my respect and for believing that his boyfriend will do better than i, i convinced her to attach with his boyfriend and reconcile with him. problems are just part of the thing called "LOVE," i said. now, i am happy to tell, they are still attach with each other. attached for more than 4 years and still counting. it's ok. she's still my friend anyway and she do not know what i feel for her. :)


Tip:
when you feel something odd in your friendship with your opposite sex, be sensitive enough to know what you feel for each other before making any move, or else, the relationship will not last for a lifetime.


WISHLIST
mushy but the next phrases that you will see are those that i really look for and wanted to have:

A bestfriend for a lifetime. a person who will be with me anytime. someone who fits my personality

A recommendation paper for me to be a missionary nurse

A friend who will join me in my tour to Singapore next year

To be a radio jock for a day.

A remedy with my high school best friend. she's in pain i believe

Sleep

Things to know about me
One day, un my high school life after dreaming to be a physician, i just realize something. everything that happens become significant. it's is then when i knew that i am receiving a calling. a calling from God to serve Him. I ignored it for i am afraid to sacrifice all the things i have in life. day by day, i always feel like living with God. not until one day in my college years when i met my hs friend who used to make my religion class more challenging. he stopped taking tourism in one of the prestigious university here in the Philippines. i told him, "eh tol i am still asking for sign and i am not yet ready to sactifice what i have. i want to have children and see them growing. i want to marry someone who will be with me for the rest of my life. and i want to make ny parent's smile before i live my own. though they will allow me to go to seminary, i still failed them. what if i am not meant there pala? i'll hurt them more. basta, i'll do something. tsaka na ung mga gusto ko. sila muna." Today, i've come to think of it again...

To love me:
since i believe that i am really a good friend and a boyfriend, here are some things you need to know and understand about me:

i am so gentle with girls. to love me is not to get jealous with my girl-friends. :)

i may not have a broad shoulder for you to lean on but i have the presence to listen and comfort you

i am a very open person. ask me and i'll answer it.

a friend is a friend and a loving someone intimately is a very different thing. (Must get out)

i always wear a big smile.

i dont get mad. but many still see me as hot-tempered person. but really, i'm not

i am as wacky as your visualization can reach. though i look serious at times

i fit myself to the person i am with. not them adjusting with me. :)

that is why if you tell to others who am i to you, it won't be the same as other individual persons will describe me. though others are just same. not all

if you need some advice about anything or questions about anything especially about life, i am here. i can't promise to give the right words but i will try to enlighten you

a friend whom i have loved has a plan to enter to a convent. she told me about it. and i told her my plans of entering a seminary. :)

what you see is never always what you get. see me deeper and you will find some good things about me. :)

love me for who i am. not of what i have.

Thanks for reading!